Friday, December 16, 2005

OOPS! I DID IT AGAIN

Some people do the same mistake over and over. they are incorrigible.
and I am one of them.I am an incorrigible lover.
I fall in love, got hurt, come out of it, promise never to fall in love and just as the wounds start healing...My heart starts beating for someone again.

again this happened. this time we are classmates and we go together to the metro station.she is still in a relationship. and she's trying to come out of it. i know that she wont be ready for a new relationship at this moment. but I can't control my adamant heart. It keeps on beating at mere sight of her. and since tomorrow i started joking by saying that I'm head over hills in her love. today at the station I was a bit down...and she was asking me the reason of it. i gave some hint......she went away.her departing words were,"dont really fall in love head over hills with me, it will be so problematic"(ok, i acept, she said some trivial things after that, but it sounds more romantic to say that it was her departing words.)

I thought to forget it. and to say tha i was just extending the joke.That would be hard for me, but then I am a good actor at times. I had made up my mind and started writing this post.......

she called me up, and asked me," are u upset of anything i said?"
-"no, not at all"
and then started the conversation of the most trivial things and above all the conversation of silence.......

shall I change my decision??? or what should i do??? plzzz give me ur valuable and even the cheap suggetions, too. I'm waiting.....

15 comments:

Abaniko said...

you told her you're in love with her, she said "no, it's gonna be problematic" then she BOTHERED TO CALL YOU to ask if you're upset by what she said and she STAYED ON THE LINE to talk about trivial things????

hah!

if you're a bit more persistent, she'll be yours. i'm positive.

Me said...

I agree with abaniko !!! She'll be urs. Best of luck.

dwaipayan said...

well, abaniko i didnt directly tell her that i'm in love with her..i just gave her some hints.....

Gangadhar said...

Hey nice conversation going on here..pl go on...
And Dwaipayan...you can surely take my post on "Warning 'bout childeren"..I'm honoured....thank you..

Soumyadip said...

I can only partly support Abaniko's view. Women you never know what's in their minds. Tread carefully. Matters of the heart make the best of men go insane.

The Comic Project said...

Ask her to go to the roof of her house, fly there in an helicopter and shower her with flowers mate :-)
Go for it.

Just hopped in here from Soumyadips blog

dwaipayan said...

comic project, thanks for ur filmy suggestion and soumyadip....mail me ur suggestions

debarati said...

well i sincerely hope dat dis works out fine !!

strawy said...

lolzzz
is it so easy to fall for some 1??
u r too fast man..
give her sometime...

they way she called u .. its mean she has some soft corner for u... so dont rush for it , just wait..
and all the best....

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

Umm ... tht was interesting ... just give it some time ... tomorrow when u meet her ... pretend as if nuttin happened ... since u've hinted her once ... and shez aware of the fact tht u love her ... now leave it like tht ... and start with casual conversations ... u'll be surprised if i say ... tht since she's come out of a relationship ... she'll want u even more ... but it's true ... give it a try ... not that am so experienced n all ... but i think i have some sixth sense pushing me to write it down here .....

As many of yr friends have written tht since she called u, she has a soft corner for u ... well tht suggests .. tht yeah she definitely doesnt think tht the proposal is a bad one ... coz otherwise she wud have been annoyed ... moreover ... she says 'fallin in love wid her will be problematic' ... tht means she finds nuttin wrong with u ... it's self pity ... which is common after most break-ups...and since u're a good friend ... u must help her get over it .... u get me?

Dont get overboard with ur flirting or that caring attitude ... coz it might do the opposite ... i mean u cud lose a good friend in tht case ... coz we;re still not sure how she sees u and wht she wants ...

So play it easy...and all the very best dude!

Any more doubts???

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

U don't really say that u're head over heels in someone's love ... if he/she is just a friend ... so if shez not dumb she'll realise what u actually meant by it ...

dwaipayan said...

thanks cheesy!! infact yesterday when we met we did talk as if nothing has happened. and we do that all the time. only when we are alone, we talk about personal things.........otherwise its making notes and all

Mirage said...

Well...no offence buddy, but it cant be love if u keep fallin in and out of it...

take care

anthony said...

i will mail u my suggestion.. I am a very seasoned lover LOL believe me..

anthony said...

In your jour I just had a mouthfull of malai burfy that I bought from the parsi sweet shop..emmm heaven.. i would have written here but if she happen to read ur blog, u r done