scene 1:some days ago, kushboo, a south indian actress had to apolozize because she said that there is nothing wrong in protected pre marital sex.
scene 2: famous tenis player sania mirza said she did not said anything in favour of pre-marital sex and her words were misinterpreted.
scene 3: a police man asked a couple to follow them because they were lying together in victoria memorial ground in kolkata.(u won't find it in news paper like the previous ones. but it's avery common thing and....i'm not saying anything more)
conclusion: indian people are very good and they are strictly against pre-marital sex. all lovers do is whispering sweet nothings in each other's ears. people who display affection in public should go to jail.
the reality: indian youth is as normal as their counter part in any other part of the globe. and they have biological urges, how ever the moral police tries to deny that. and they are engaged in all the activities love demand, be it emotional or physical attachment.
normal relationship and platonic love do not co-exixt. and the sexual hormones do not start working only after marriage. will they ever understand????????
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it's a classic example of "delaying gratification". there are benefits to it though. but everything is really up to the (mature) couple. if they engage in premarital sex, fine. so long as they take full responsibility of their actions.
Hi there...how u been? Me been away for a while...and a minute back, saw all those tags u thought of passing on to me :p
Hehe...sorry man...m off blogging.
U be good.
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hello,anonymous zombie!! won't u make a come back. i really miss ur blog!!and i think many on the blogosphere will share my pain.
gangadhar,
probably i couldn't express myself totally. i know sex is a medium of expressing love. and my point is that why that medium should restrict itself only post marriage??
and debarati,
thanks for not mentioning ur tummy ache.
and abaniko, what are the responsibilities in safe sex???
Moral Police - what morals do they themselves have?
And as for sex - there's nothing that can stop it, even school kids do it. Policing will only make the matters worse, what is needed is education - so that there are no regrets later.
hi....thanks for dropping by..
God bless u !
Our society has to understand that different people have different views. And people have every right to live their lives the way they feel is right. Besides pre marital sex is a very personal issue, and other people shud mind their own business and keep out of it.
True That!!
Thanx 4 droppin by...
I so agree with u...sexual hormones dont depend on which culture u come from! For goddsakes wake up ppl...it's a very personal choice so let ppl make their own decisions.
Keshi.
Don't you display the same sort of closed mind when you say it is not possible to have a platonic love relationship?
As soon as sexual hormones start working and are going outta control....go and get married..
Thats the only solution ;)
Thanks for dropping by ma blog.
Greetz!!
well rav, probably u are right. it was contamination of the biased minds
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