Sunday, August 07, 2005

MARRIAGE: A BURDEN?

yesterday one of my pal,payel, came to my place. she asked me whats the position of marriage in todays world. does it mean that i cant look at any person just because i'm married. or i cant fall in love with anybody else than my spouse.

i said no, not at all. u cant expect one person not to fall in love all his life. it's ridiculous. it's natural to fall in love. but just because i love a person i wont commit adultery.
i think the vows of marriage lies in commitment. if i marry someone that means i will be with her for the rest of my life.i wont leave her even for someone whom i find later in my life, not even for my love.

somebody tell my views to my mom and ask her to get me married,plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

3 comments:

Soumyadip said...

But you also need a girl to get married to. If you have one let us know and we can pass the word.

debarati said...

emm .... i was feeling too bored to read dis, so i didnt !!

roopsha said...

hmmmmmmm..... well, having read wat u wrote, i hv to say i disagree.... u say when u marry a person u r committed to that person, that u'll never leave that person coz u hv promised to stay with him/her for the rest of ur life.... well, that my friend, can only happen when u're in love with that person.... believe me, if it's not love that u feel for ur spouse then no stupid mantras can keep u together..... wat good is marriage then??? u can't stay with a person u don't love.... u just can't.... love leads to commitment, not vice versa..... adultery happens due to lack of love.... and if u trully love ur spouse, u'll never look at another person.....